Elder Abuse is a growing issue and one that can be hidden. Often an older person may not realise what’s happening to them is abuse or they may cover up the signs out of shame or fear of what might happen if someone finds out.
World Elder Abuse Awareness Day, held each year on June 15, is an opportunity to highlight this important issue and raise awareness so that as a society we can be aware of the signs and know where to turn if we suspect that abuse may be occurring.
What is elder abuse?
Elder abuse is any act which causes harm to an older person and it is often carried out by someone they know and trust such as a family member or friend. The abuse can take many forms, including emotional, physical, financial, social or sexual.
What are the signs of elder abuse?
Depending on the type of elder abuse, there can be different signs to look for. The signs can be quite subtle and vary depending on the person. It’s worth noting that often more than one type of abuse may be occurring at the same time.
Social abuse
Social abuse is often the first sign that elder abuse may be occurring. Social abuse can include preventing contact with family, friends or enjoyable activities, listening in on phone calls and withholding mail.
Signs include:
- Sadness or grief due to loss of contact with others
- Withdrawal
- Loss of self-esteem
Emotional abuse
Emotional abuse can take the form of pressuring, bullying or belittling and can include name-calling as well as threats to harm the person, their pets or loved ones.
Signs include:
- Fear
- Depression or low mood
- Confusion
- Feeling of helplessness
- Loneliness
Financial abuse
Financial abuse is one of the most common types of abuse and in many cases involves using powers of attorney to manage an older person’s finances inappropriately. It can also include misleading an older person to signing paperwork for loans or wills and using bank or credit cards without the person’s permission.
Signs include:
- Large withdrawals or big changes to banking habits or activities
- Fear, stress and anxiety
- Difficulty finding the money for basics such as food, clothing, transport costs and bills
- Missing belongings
Physical abuse
As well as use of physical force such as pushing, shoving, slapping or general rough handling, physical abuse can also include using chemical or physical restraints.
Signs include:
- Unexplained accidents or injuries
- Bruises, cuts, or scratches
- Pain or restricted movement
- Fear or anxiety
What to do if you suspect elder abuse is occurring
If you suspect that someone you know is being abused, you can reach out and:
- Let them know help is available
- Invite them to talk in a place they are alone and safe
- Let them know it is not their fault
- Respect their right to make their own decisions
- Keep providing support, even if they refuse help
In Queensland, the Elder Abuse Helpline (Call 1300 651 192) provides free and confidential advice for anyone experiencing elder abuse or who suspects someone they know may be experiencing elder abuse.